Once again, inspiration hits my mind up. When you are going to step into "2", you are considered as a "half adult". Life is full of challenges. You can either choose to give up in halfway or face it. By the way, I'm out of topic again.Actually, today my topic is going to be <MARRIAGE.RELATIONSHIP>.
Relationship is either about breakup or marry. Nowadays, a lot of people marry in an early age. Whenever I open my Facebook newsfeed, there will be at least a friend of mine or friend's friend is going to marry soon especially THIS YEAR.For me, it's too early right now.Seriously, I think I got "marriage phobia".
My Boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years ++. But ,marriage for us, it stills a long way to go. After you getting marry, at the first few years, you might feel so "sweet but how about later? You are going to face the "same person" in your whole entire life. So, why must be that "RUSH"?Sometimes, being together for a long time doesn't mean that you will together with that person forever. You may be married but who knows one day you will get "divorce"as well . I'm not pessimistic.It's just because everyone knows that life is full of unexpected .
For me, I rather choose to go to travel all around the world with my beloved first before I step into "marriage" journey. I want my career to be successful . I want to be independence and not to rely on anybody. I have to learn how to be a responsible person first.Now, I'm still remain my "cincai"
personality.It makes me feel so useless .LOL
No matter how rich is your boyfriend/husband or his family, woman still needs to have their own career. Who knows what will happen in the future. This is not known as "realistic" but it's a kind of "assurance" for woman.
Action is more powerful than speaking. Most of the people only know how to talk instead of stepping out from their comfort zone including me. There is one type of girl ,I really "sibeh tahan". Like, some of the girls who maybe in a relationship with a boy who comes from a affluent family, love to show it off to everyone as if her boyfriend or boyfriend's family money belongs to her. Seriously, this type of girl is so annoying to me. I love girls who keep low profile in their relationship. But,sometimes it also makes my curiosity up and feels like want to stalk on them.This is known as "GEIPO".Girl's nature what?!AHAHAHAHAHA
I can't imagine myself marry at this early age and need to take responsible to take care a family.Not a family, is both families.Your family and your husband's family. I think by 30 years old, my face probably will look like a 60 years old woman already. NO,NO,NO, I can't accept this cruel fact. Or maybe after you give birth to a child, your body shape will not be as good as before.Hence, it may lose your self-confidence and self-esteem. Your husband may also lose interest on you too . It's unfair right to a girl? What to do?! This is "life"/"fate". Haven't enjoy life yet but you already get tortured by your so called "responsibility". Do you really want to have this kind of life? Are you really well-prepared to face it?Before get into marriage, please think twice. Don't make your life to have chance to be regretted. We only live once.
An useful article which I think every girl should read about it.
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