~Quick Decision~

SO,SO,SO , I've made a quick decision that I ever had in my life which was less than 1 minute. It is..........................................,I decided to withdraw from INTI, my current university.

Thoughts of being a 20 years old little girl

Once again, inspiration hits my mind up. When you are going to step into "2", you are considered as a "half adult". Life is full of challenges. You can either choose to give up in halfway or  face it. By the way, I'm out of topic again.Actually, today my topic is going to be <MARRIAGE.RELATIONSHIP>.

Relationship is either about breakup or marry. Nowadays, a lot of people marry in an early age. Whenever I open my Facebook newsfeed, there will be at least a friend of mine or friend's friend is going to marry soon especially THIS YEAR.For me, it's too early right now.Seriously, I think I got "marriage phobia".

My Boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years ++. But ,marriage for us, it stills a long way to go.  After you getting marry, at the first few years, you might feel so "sweet but how about later? You are going to face the "same person" in your whole entire life. So, why must be that "RUSH"?Sometimes, being together for a long time doesn't mean that you will together with that person forever. You may be married but who knows one day you will get "divorce"as well . I'm not pessimistic.It's just because everyone knows that life is full of unexpected .

For me, I rather choose to go to travel all around the world with my beloved first before I step into "marriage" journey. I want my career to be successful . I want to be independence and not to rely on anybody. I have to learn how to be a responsible person first.Now, I'm still remain my "cincai" 

personality.It makes me feel so useless .LOL

No matter how rich is your boyfriend/husband or his family, woman still needs to have their own career. Who knows what will happen in the future. This is not known as "realistic" but it's a kind of "assurance" for woman.

Action is more powerful than speaking. Most of the people only know how to talk instead of stepping out from their comfort zone including me. There is one type of girl ,I  really "sibeh tahan". Like, some of the girls who maybe in a relationship with a boy who comes from a affluent family, love to show it off to everyone as if her boyfriend or boyfriend's family money belongs to her. Seriously, this type of girl is so annoying to me.  I love girls who keep low profile in their relationship. But,sometimes it also makes my curiosity up and feels like want to stalk on them.This is known as "GEIPO".Girl's nature what?!AHAHAHAHAHA

I can't imagine myself marry at this early age and need to take responsible to take care a family.Not a family, is both families.Your family and your husband's family. I think by 30 years old, my face probably will look like a 60 years old woman already. NO,NO,NO, I can't accept this cruel fact. Or maybe after you give birth to a child, your body shape will not be  as good as before.Hence, it may lose your self-confidence and self-esteem. Your husband may also lose interest on you too . It's unfair right to a girl? What to do?! This is "life"/"fate". Haven't enjoy life yet but you already get tortured by your so called "responsibility". Do you really want to have this kind of life? Are you really well-prepared to face it?Before get into marriage, please think twice. Don't make your life to have chance to be regretted. We only live once.

An useful article which I think every girl should read about it.

http://elitedaily.com/dating/sex/5-reasons-one-get-married-30/

8D7N Stylish Shanghai +Fascinating Jiangnan ( Part 3)

Day 6:SHANGHAI
From Hangzhou transferred to Shanghai, it needed 3 hours by bus. I was very looking forward to Shanghai compared to Jiangnan.I stayed in Shanghai for 2 days. There was a lot of places to explore. As the time was limited, I only went to a certain places which was very famous for tourist.
> Visited the bund 上海滩, taobao free market,Chenghuang Miao market and watched acrobatic show at night.

THE BUND  上海滩

Famous dumpling stall in ChengHuang Miao market

inside the auditorium for watching acrobatic show

DAY 7:
Visited Jade Buddha temple, a chinese traditional medical shop,Pudong New District and the World Expo Site, Nanjing Road and lastly Pearl Tv Tower.

Inside Pearl Tv Tower

In Nanjing Road.Centre of Shanghai.also known as Shopping street in Shanghai

dinner of the night

night view of Shanghai

do you spot the PEARL TV TOWER?

Hopefully you guys will enjoy by looking at these photos.Anyway, thx for your reading .

8D7N STYLISH SHANGHAI + FASCINATING JIANGNAN (Part 2)

Day 3:Nanjing/Wuxi
 Viewed Nanjing's Impressive double deck Yangtze River Bridge and jade museum. After that,proceeded to Wuxi to visit Ling Shan Giant Buddha (THE LARGEST BUDDHIST STATUE IN THE WORLD) and Vetican Palace .

At Yangtze River Bridge

tour members

LING SHAN GIANT BUDDHA

somewhere inside LING SHAN TEMPLE

The look inside the VETICAN PALACE

Vetican Palace. They used RM8 billions to build it

Day 4: WUXI-WUZHEN-HANGZHOU
Headed to "Three Kingdom City"by buggy to experience the ancient worship used in the oldest day and visited a pearl farm where famous for producing fresh water pearls from Lake Taihu.After having our lunch in pearl farm, we proceeded to HANGZHOU.On the way to Hangzhou, we stopped by in Wuzhen Ancient Water Town. We were staying in Hangzhou for 2 nights.

Three Kingdom City 

Things that aunt and I bought in pearl farm. Heard that the pearl powder is very good for face. It can be made into a mask and applied it on face...My aunt bought the most..hahaha

                                 

WUZHEN

TRADITIONALLLLLLLL

This is how China people's houses in earliest day.Until today, there is still some families live here.

my dress from Bugis Street,Singapore-$15

Day5:Hangzhou
enjoyed a romantic cruise on West Lake.Proceeded to Huanguang Park which located nearby West Lake and visited the Longjing Tea plantation,Southern Song Dynasty  Guan Kilin Museum and the Residence of Mr Hu. Went to shop at Hefang Old Street for its unique variety of Chinese Craft.At the night time, we went to watch the "West Lake Impression" performance.

WEST LAKE

Hangzhou's Signature dish-DONG PO MEAT

In the tea farm

Long Jing TEA

I bought this little cute thing from HEFANG street,Looked familiar huh?It's from a Korea Drama!